MALAYSIA BACKWARD

I love reading books.......i can sit hours and hours at book store browsing and reading books....... but i don't fancy book store in Malaysia......

As Malaysian our knowledge has been restricted by our government on what we CAN OR CANT SEE,...HEAR....TASTE.... ..and so on........

For a country who have been bitching around about moving forward....hmmmm .....i think our government is extremely old school.....for them to prevent is simply by banned. They don't even want to give us the society the benefit of doubt that we can differentiate between good and bad...right and wrong.....

By still by banned most things..... the government is actually making a statement that we Malaysian is stupid and not Independence.

Example: we all gonna have sex sooner or later. aight....then why sex book is ban in Malaysia.......why as a teenager we are not allow to read this kind of book......if they gonna do it might as well teach them the right way.....aight

Condom.....we can even show the condom add on tv.....i think condom is good to reduces and prevent abortion and increase our quality of living......EVERYBODY KNOW.....THAT EVERYBODY IS HAVING SEX....But why sex is still a taboo topic......

we cant blame or ban the book just because we think its gonna give bad idea or influences......GET REAL...........what we should do is...... increase the moral level and taught our kids to learn how to differentiate between what is bad and what is good....in another word...taught them how to used their common sense......everything must start from school and home.....as a parent...we should learn how to give them the trust and we must show them the respect especially in decision that they make......let them make the decision.....

as parents...we cant be with them forever....but we can always let them know that we will always be there for them when they need us......if they don't make mistake they wont know.....NO PAIN NO GAIN

not just book...even movies...they cut some romance and violence part......but still teenage now days are fuck up.......have u ever considered that its all started when they were young not when they were a teenager.....CARTOONS are the start of everything...of course everybody will say that cartoon is not real....but u were kids...everything is real....

example....popeye-how two guys fight over a girl.....doraemon....how kid start bullying others, power ranger - just ask the kid to fight and they start doing all this power ranger style... and many more(maybe my example is bad...i cant think right now...but u know what I'm saying)....

to prove that cartoon give a big impact in our life.....- take example of CINDERELLA....- every girl when they grow up they want to have a wedding and ending like a Cinderella...happily ever after...knowing its only a cartoon.....we all want to have a romantic life and passionate kiss like what we saw in Cinderella not in You Got Mail Movie...or Pretty Woman Movie (my example is really bad)

and do u remember about 10 years ago they ban all this sleeping beauty...cinderella.....and many more cartoon or even movies that have a step mom character...why...simply because....every time the kids heard about the father is going to remarried ....they keep on thinking how cruel and mean a step mom can be just like in the cartoon......and they start crying and got scared.....even until now.....


what I'm trying to say here is ...it is not the movie that we watch today that will make us tend to do nonsense thing...but what we saw when we were young...of course now some of us will be smart enough to tell which one is real and which one is not...coz we have experience it in life.......

by the way...have u seen the teacher that taught the kids in school???70% are useless......they barely can speak english....no self confidence.....u know what more pathetic....a standard 1 kids now days have to go to tuition to improve their study.....WHAT IS THIS???......how can a teacher ask the parent to send their 7 years old child for a tuition....they are 7 years old..of course they are stupid that's why we send them to school...TO LEARN.....what a retard......i just don't know how to comment.....


further more......they are very defensive and narrow minded..... how can a teacher be narrow minded????not just teacher...parents too....have u ever wonder why your children refused to talk to u....just simply because you narrow minded....you don't open up yourself to them......u restricted what can or cant be said.....this is how kids end up doing silly stuff coz they end up asking for advise from their friend who more or less have a shit for brain like them....then we as a parent....pretend to be shocked when shit hit the fan.....

most kids in Malaysia are SPOON FEED....what i mean is....THE PARENTS AND THE TEACHERS IS TELLING THEM WHAT TO THINK..... it is amazing how when we were young we always hate how our parents treat us but now we treat our kids the same why the do to us....SUCKER FOR PUNISHMENT.......

as an adult we should let our kids explore their own mind and pls...pls...pls encourage them to think...don't give them the solution every time they ask for it....force them to think......let them used their own brain.....teach them to be responsible.


by doing so we might have better chances of producing quality people instead of quantity.......this will not just improve our society but also improve our economy.....before i forgot.....who come with a theory that by having more children....god will give u more luck....rezeki lagi murah......sorry to say this....THAT IS PLAIN BULLSHIT.......60 to 100 years ago maybe people believe that .... but not now.....

do u guys know why they say u have more fortune or murah rezaki???its simply because when parents are having more kids.....normally they will motivated themselves to find more money in order to provide a living for the family... but sad to say that some people think that god going give them more money (especially the lazy fucker) just because they have a new baby.....the money wont come just by making babies....if that is the case believe me.....most of us will just sit home and fuck.....

i read a case which happen in France about 7 years ago.....where the child is suing the parents for letting him to be born knowing that he will suffer due to physical disorder.....this also effect his emotion.... can u believe this...???? i do.. and i agree.. of course there are two way of looking at things....but if u cant provide a life for all these children then why u want to make them suffer....
when they become a criminal who do we blame.........they live hard life and suffer sometime....but do they have a choice....do parents even consider if they want to be born in this environment.....

I'm not encouraging abortion here...what I'm saying is don't let others suffer for ur own pleasure......sometime we wonder...how can such an innocent and beautiful creatures turn to be a monster....

sometime not everything is worth to be given a second chance......sometime thing is just not meant to be....but some people think that - god give and we have to accept....is that mean that if god give us hard life we should just accept it and live thru it without even trying to improve our life????

but do we ever considered that maybe god want to test us.......to see if we can see what is right and wrong....sometime god give us a hard life but we still fight to survive because we know that's not what he want. god will never want to see us suffer....

as and adult ....we should open up our self...don't be narrow minded.....think ahead....the future.....


There is a book - WILL A GIRL WALKS LIKE A DUCK... i forgot who wrote this book...(will find out later) - if u have a sister or niece or teenager daughter...u should let them read this book....it is a good book for them to read.....its all QnA about date and pre-sex.....they will answer a lot of questioned for them.....about date..first kiss....whether it is right or wrong if the boy touch her on certain part and many more.....good books trust me....

sorry if i hurt some feeling.....but i hope u guys will be an adult who is not narrow minded....and respect others for their opinion even sometime its might sound stupid...... R.E.S.P.E.C.T


TWATTY THOUGHT:

LIFE ISN'T ALWAYS WONDERFUL - LIVE THRU IT.......JUST HOPE THAT IT WILL GET BETTER AS WE GROW......